How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.
Winnie the Pooh
It can hurt badly when you’re missing someone you love. For many, missing someone can be seen as a negative experience but these quotes tell us that missing someone isn’t something we need to dread.
It’s heavy but if we learn how to find our way through it, missing someone can be a form of love. It becomes a feeling we can manage though it makes our lives harder but it will teach us which relationships are worth keeping (no matter what) and which are worth leaving behind.
Here’s a collection of 31 quotes to express how much you miss that special someone.
∴ Distance unites missing beats of two hearts in love. – Munia Khan
∴ For some, distance can feel like an enemy but a kinder perspective is that it binds two lovers and makes them both stronger than they were yesterday. Because of distance, you get to miss someone so bad and you realize just how much he or she matters to you. And that’s what love is all about.
∴ Love is missing someone whenever you’re apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you’re close in heart. – Kay Knudsen
∴ There will be moments when you need to be apart from a loved one but in those moments, know that missing that person doesn’t necessarily have to be a sad emotion. You don’t always have to see it as loneliness because when you love someone, no matter how far or close you two are with each other physically, they’ll always be close in your heart.
∴ You left, and my heart is a ceaseless sermon of loneliness. – Jaesse Tyler
∴ Sometimes, often initially, the absence can feel like its drowning you into a form of loneliness. This is an important place of spiritual growth where we can learn not to become dependent and also place greater consciousness on the aspects of the person we love but did not fully recognize before.
∴ Every parting is a form of death, as every reunion is a type of heaven. – Tryon Edwards
∴ There can’t be any better event in life than reuniting with the people you love – be it friends, family, or significant other. That moment when you can finally have them in your arms is a magical moment. Recognise that the joy of that moment was fuelled by the absence before.
∴ You have no idea how hard it is to force myself to stop thinking about you. – Anonymous
∴ We all have different ways of forgetting. Some people require travel, others require some alone time. Some want to stay busy until they finally forget the person they’re trying to forget but the first step is always the most difficult, regardless of your method of forgetting.
∴ In true love, the smallest distance is too great, and the greatest distance can be bridged. – Hans Nouwens
∴ True love is hard to find, but if you find it, distance can be overcome. You will miss them every single day you’re apart but in true love, missing her will serve as a bridge between you both. No matter how far the distance is, love and longing will make them just a little closer.
∴ I think about you constantly, whether it’s with my mind or my heart. – Terri Guillemets
∴ Thinking about that special someone is easy when they are away. It’s like every single cell in your body wishes to be with them and as they does happen you tend to both think and feel the longing and the absence so that your whole being is missing them.
∴ The pain of missing you is a beautiful reminder of the joy of loving you. – Dean Jackson
∴ Instead of dwelling on your heavy emotions, consider focusing on the fact that you miss them so much. Try to dissect the emotion and ask yourself if you’ve ever missed someone this much before, or why exactly do you miss them this much. Remind yourself of the joy you two shared before the longing had to happen. This way, missing them won’t feel so heavy anymore.
∴ If I could plant a flower for every time I miss you, I could walk through my garden forever. – Anonymous
∴ Have you ever found that special someone? That person who feels like your universe. That person who makes life seem so easy and free? Think on life without them each day and reflect with gratitude on their presence.
∴ We only part to meet again. – John Gay
∴ The thing about being apart that many feel the negative loss. Instead, just focus on the idea that someday, you will meet again. Maybe as lovers, still, or maybe as friends only. But the meeting is important. It’s an amazing moment in life. It’s something worthy of celebrating.
∴ I love you past the moon and miss you beyond the stars. – Jm Storm
∴ When you run out of words to express how much you miss someone. When you run out of tears or when you just don’t want to be negative anymore, go free yourself from it. Missing someone doesn’t have to be so bad. It’s a heavy emotion to deal with but it doesn’t have to be so bad. Just approach it in a metaphorical way, with the help of poets like Jm Storm.
∴ I just wanted you to know you were missed. – Megan Erickson
∴ Sometimes, this is the only thing we need. There’s always a lot going in whether you’re in a relationship or not and most of the time, we forget our worth. We forget that we’re actually humans, possibly impacting other people’s lives. Thus, it’s wise to let your lover and pretty much everyone else know that they are missed. Because that will remind them of their worth and their impact and their value. It may not solve anything but it will definitely improve how they feel about themselves.
∴ Without you here, the sun forgets to shine. – Anonymous
∴ Sometimes, the universe just feels you. When you long for someone, there will be days when the universe will make you feel that longing too and the sun appears as if not to shine. Remember that the night is darkest just before the sunrise.
∴ No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other’s worth. – Robert Southey
∴ If there’s one thing that keeps people stronger despite the distance, it would be the acknowledgement of each other’s worth. If you know this other person is worthy of your love and your time; if you know she is worthy of the wait, then you will wait.
∴ Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated. – Lamartine
∴ There are some special people that walk into our lives that feel like they have a gravitational pull on us. There absence when gone then feels like a vacuum of energy in our a lives, a strange morphing effect. Experiencing this is vital to understanding their role in our lives.
∴ The eternal quest of the individual human being is to shatter his loneliness. – Norman Cousins
∴ In missing someone we can feel lonely and be tempted to think that we are alone without them. Its at this time that we most need to reach inside of ourselves and realize that we are not alone, we are never alone. There is an invisible hand that guides us and watches over us.
∴ Missing you could turn from pain to pleasure, if I knew you were missing me too. – Anonymous
∴ Missing someone and knowing they don’t miss you back is a particular kind of pain. Like unrequited love in a distant format. Remember that once someone might have missed you in the same fashion and perhaps then you can look upon the situation with greater compassion.
∴ A goodbye isn’t painful unless you’re never going to say hello again. – Anonymous
∴ There are many different kinds of goodbye. There’s the goodbye that is coupled with an I miss you, a goodbye coupled with I love you, a goodbye that doesn’t want to be said, and the goodbye where you won’t get to say hello to that person ever again. The last one is definitely the most painful kind of goodbye. The one you wish you’d never have to say or feel.
∴ If ever I see you smile and know that it is not for me, that is when I will miss you the most. – Anonymous
∴ This quote is both talking about possible relationship breakup and the pain of contemplating the other’s future happiness. It also looks closely at procrastinating on another’s life whilst away from you and wishing you were there to be part of it.
∴ Did you ever stop to think, and forget to start again? – A.A. Milne
∴ The thing about longing for someone is that we can’t really pinpoint when we started miss them and when we don’t. Whether you miss them because they left or simply because they are far, there’s no such thing as planning to miss them. Countless times each day, we take a pause and think them.
∴ Another day, another pang that you are afar. – Byron Caldwell Smith
∴ Life loves to test us. One day you are lying on the bed with your lover and the next, something happens and you need to be apart. Life never runs out of ways to challenge us and coping with absence is a path we must all walk at some point.
∴ The scariest thing about distance is you don’t know whether they’ll miss you or forget about you. – Jan Sardi
∴ This is a potentially painful truth and the moment you fall in love with someone, you have to prepare yourself for this. When you do get to this point, you have to be strong enough to deal with this because missing someone and being forgotten about can be very bruising on the heart.
∴ How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard. – Winnie the Pooh
∴ The next time you have someone in your life that you need to say goodbye to and you find that very difficult, don’t curse the universe. Don’t question why you and all your loved ones need to be at some sort of distance because truth is, we all go through this and it is a gift.
∴ We’ll meet again, but you’re a lifetime away, and I need you now. – Karen Quan
∴ When missing someone, this is exactly how it feels. Learn to stay stronger each day because if they’re worth it, and you need her now, you’ll get through today and you’ll get through tomorrow.
∴ I can deal with anything in this world, except your silence. – Varsid
∴ Missing someone doesn’t always have to be the physical kind. In a relationship, there will be moments when the fight is so big your world becomes silent and in these moments, you don’t miss her because she’s gone. You miss her because she’s silent.
∴ My world is thinning and it’s all because of one person I’m missing. – Sanober Khan
∴ Its tempting to look at missing someone this way but instead of focusing on the fact that your loved one is not with you physically, why not focus on the fact that you actually miss them so much and you never thought you could miss someone that much.
∴ I can’t close my eyes without you in my dreams. – Luke Bryan
∴ If you’ve ever experience this then consider yourself a lucky person. Believe it or not, it takes a strong person to actually admit this, and if you’re admitting it to yourself then that’s something. Sometimes, people come into our lives and things happen, and the next thing we know, we just miss that person. We miss them that even in our dreams, they’re the only person we can contemplate.
∴ The mountain between us is one I cannot climb. – Charles Martin
∴ Sometimes, you get to find a way to be with your loved one. Maybe that’s through travelling to see them or figuring out how to make things work despite the distance. But there will also be times when mountains grow between you two and the next thing you know, you just cannot climb it. And you have no choice but to miss them until you don’t anymore.